Mediation is truly the best method to respectfully end a marriage. Cost, time frame to complete and stress levels are all substantially reduced when compared to the lawyer/court process.   

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     Mediation allows for the entire divorce process to be accomplished in a private setting and if you are successful in reaching an agreement, the divorce is finalized without either of you ever having to appear in court. The cost of a mediated divorce is $3500.00 and that includes the court costs and filing fees of $370.00. This fee covers both of you. Fifty percent is due at the first session. It is typical in our area for people to pay $4000.00 or more (each) for just an attorney "retaining fee" for a court room divorce, so the savings to both of you is substantial.           

 

     With mediation I meet with both of you. If your spouse will not attend, you cannot mediate.

The key to mediation is that you have the ability to communicate with each other in a business-like fashion and that you are willing to be reasonable and fair with each other.     

    
     You will need to bring with you last year’s tax return, financial and retirement account statements, recent pay stubs and information on debts and liabilities. Full financial disclosure is required.    

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     Many spouses have already reached agreements on certain issues before arriving at mediation, however that is not necessary. As a mediator I will help you understand your rights, what options are available and provide legal information concerning division of marital property, retirement accounts, parenting of children as well as child and spousal support if they are applicable to your situation.     

 

      The cornerstone principle of mediation is "self-determination". The objective is to reach "fully informed, voluntary agreements to resolve all issues related to your divorce". We do not try to imitate what a court might do, rather I assist you in reaching an agreement tailored to your particular circumstances and that you both believe is fair.           

If mediation is your preferred way to proceed, please feel free to share the above with your spouse.

 

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I have been a divorce lawyer and mediator for 39 years and have handled several thousand divorces so I'm sure I can help.

 

I prefer cash payment and also accept checks, Venmo, and credit cards but add 3.5% to cover service charge.